FAQ or Answers to Questions
Please take a little time to read this important information before making an appointment.
What are your opening hours?
Spontaneous appointments are rarely possible. It’s better that you reserve your massage appointment in time (at least one day in advance, better 2-5 days)
I am not giving more than 2 massages per day, so that I can be present and with my full attention and energy with you only.
Holiday and Education Times 2019
Due to trainings or private absence, I cannot arrange massage appointments at the following times:
- June 3 to June 15 – Holiday
- August 24 to August 31 – Tantra Seminar with Diana Richardson (Switzerland)
You are welcome to send me a message per WhatsApp +49 162 84 22 420 or per email to email@example.com.
Phone calls only per landline +49 7775 939 44 08. If I cannot answer the phone directly, please leave a message.
Due to the bad mobile phone net in Mindersdorf, SMS and cellphone calls do not work properly and reliably.
Annotation: With all understanding for discretion, I reserve the right not to take calls from suppressed numbers.
Basics - What's important for me to know?
I do not offer sexual services, but rather pleasant and relaxing touches. Please do not misunderstand my offers and read my FAQ page (questions and answers) before asking for an appointment.
Time for the Massage and time for the whole
The time indicated per massage is the pure massage time. Preliminary and follow-up conversation, time for taking a shower and my spoken introductory meditation right before the massage (in Tantra-, Lingam- and Body-to-Body Massages) do not count to the massage time. Please always count with at least 30 minutes more time around your massage.
Shaving intimate area
If you would like to receive a Tantra or Tao Massage, please shave or trim your intimate area. It’s way more pleasant and smooth for both the receiver and the giver to massage with warm oil on a shaved or shortened area.
Since this detail has become of importance for me as the giver, please confirm this with your inquiry for an appointment.
You may take a shower in my rooms, but of course it’s also good when you already arrive showered.
If you – especially in the summer – have the tendency to sweat and to produce odour, I ask you to use an anti-transpirant like Hidrofugal after your shower. Of course, I have everything necessary in the house.
This is simply a recommendation, if you have problems with callus or unhappy toenails. Men are also increasingly consulting medical foot care. This is wellness for you and it makes your feet happy and healthy.
A request to the smokers and garlic lovers
As an ex-smoker I fully understand this habit. However, I am extremely odor-sensitive since I quit smoking many years ago. During a massage with me, the physical closeness is quite large depending on the massage. Therefore I have the request to you to make sure that you do not smell so much of smoke. And please also not of garlic 🙂
May I touch or observe you during the massage?
It is important that you focus with your attention on yourself and that you do not try to sexually interact with me. If I feel that you would like to lead the massage into a sexual action, it will distract me and disturb the effect of the massage. If you do not respect my clear limits and repeatedly try to seduce me, I will finish the massage and ask you to leave.
Since going inwards with your attention is one of the most important aspects for relaxation, I ask you to keep your eyes closed during the massage. Allow yourself to enjoy your inner experiences and to feel the gentle touches with warm oil on your whole body. The nakedness of the masseuse during Tantric Massages is NOT to serve the erotic stimulation through visual stimuli, but is rather an expression of fairness and equivalence between the giver and the receiver.
I invite you to fully enjoy the passive devotion and to completely relax. Enjoy this special experience of passively receiving tender touches.
What do you wear during a massage?
In a Tantra Massage it is not about stimulating excitement through outer stimuli. It’s about turning your attention inwards, your relaxation and a new experience. .
When your consciousness is turned outward, the thinking process and the world arise. When it is turned inward, it realizes its origin and returns home to the unmanifest.
What is a Tantra Massage?
The effect of a Tantra Massage can be deeply relaxing, inspiring and soothing. A trance-like experience may happen or a deep relaxation with pleasant aftereffects. Feelings can come to the surface, new inspirations have space. The less expectations you have and the more open-minded you come, the more likely it is that you have an intense, beautiful experience.
The VENUSIA Oriental Massage Center currently offers Tantra Massages for men only.
Doesn’t Tantra simply mean sex?
Tantra in general is a way of living, a way of thinking, a way of being and a path to spiritual awareness. It has to do with unconditional love and with transcending life experiences by choosing the non-dual way. No judgement, no criticism, but rather acceptance and love for all that is. Sexuality is a natural part of life, a part of being a human being, therefore it’s included and allowed to live sensuality and sexuality in a tantric sense.
A Tantra Massage is just a part of what is called Tantra. It includes all body parts, but NO sexual service is connected. It is about the passive enjoyment and acceptance of touches and caresses. A tantric massage is not a medical massage, although a profound healing effect can be possible through dedication and relaxation.
The roles of the person who gives and of the person who receives are clearly defined and separated from each other.
What's the difference between an Tantra and an Erotic Massage?
A Tantra Massage is a spiritual-sensual massage, that’s why it is embedded in a small ritual with meditation and special atmosphere.
The question concerning a “Happy Ending”
I do not use the term “Happy Ending”. The whole massage may be enjoyed as a “Happy Massage”. Sexual excitement, erection and ejaculation are okay and allowed. These physical reactions are just natural and can occur as a consequence of the atmosphere, the relaxation and the gentle touches. However, there is no goal and no enforcement. A Tantra Massage is generally an unintentional massage.
The VENUSIA Oriental Massage Center is a place for people who appreciate the journey as well as the destination.
What happens when I am coming for a massage?
Do I have an orgasm during the massage?
Isn’t it exciting for you as well when the man gets an erection?
I am fully focused on causing you a soothing, relaxing experience. That makes me happy and does me good, too.
What is a Lingam Massage?
You may choose if you would like to enjoy the Lingam Massage on the massage bank or on the futon.
What is the Lingam Extended Massage?
Lingam Extended Massage – The more intense Enjoyment
THIS NEW MASSAGE IS FOR THE TIME BEING ONLY OFFERED FOR EXISTING GUESTS. NEW GUESTS ARE WELCOME TO CHOOSE A LINGAM OR TANTRA MASSAGE.
Die Lingam Extended Massage ist eine tief entspannende, tantrische Ganzkörpermassage, in der deiner Intimzone besondere Aufmerksamkeit geschenkt wird.
Wähle die Lingam Extended, wenn du dir eine besondere Erfahrung wünschst:
- Längerer und intensiverer Genuss durch eine ausgedehnte, kreative Lingammassage.
- Mögliches Erleben von mehr als einem Höhepunkt durch mehrere direkte Intimmassagen.
- Erfahren wunderschöner, gleichwertiger Berührungen deines ganzen Körpers, wobei Erektion und Höhepunkt keine Rolle spielen. In einer tantrischen Massage geht es nicht um Leistung. Du musst nichts erbringen, nichts zeigen, nichts beweisen.
Was ist wichtig für dich zu wissen?
Die Lingam Extended Massage ist bei aller Sinnlichkeit keine Erotikmassage. Es ist eine Tantramassage, also eine ganzheitliche Massage, die dich als ganzen Menschen annimmt und berührt. Eine isolierte Massage der Intimzone wird nicht angeboten (keine Prostatamassage).
Wie alle anderen VENUSIA Massagen ist auch die Lingam Extended eine absichtslose, einseitig gebende Massage. Das Berühren der Masseurin und die eigene visuelle Stimulierung durch Beobachten gehören nicht dazu. Es geht darum, dass du diese Zeit nur für dich genießt und dass du mit deiner Aufmerksamkeit ganz bei dir bleibst. Auf diese Weise entspannst du am tiefsten und kannst sehr intensive Erlebnisse haben.
Der Massageraum, der Zeitraum und die Masseurin sind für deine Erfahrung da, für dein Erlebnis und für deinen Genuss. Es geht um dein natürliches Sein als Mann, als Mensch, um das Erfahren deiner Männlichkeit und deiner Lebensenergie.
Deine Erektion darf sein, es kann aber auch eine sehr schöne, genussvolle Erfahrung sein, wenn du die Berührungen ohne sichtbare Erregung genießt. Es geht nicht darum, ein Ziel zu erreichen. Ein sexueller Höhepunkt darf jedoch geschehen, weil er eine natürliche, körperliche Reaktion ist – wenn es passt und sich ergibt, auch mehrmals. Wie auch immer dein Körper auf die Situation und die Berührungen reagiert, ist es in Ordnung.
Was ist der Unterschied zwischen der Lingam Extended und den anderen VENUSIA Massagen?
In den anderen tantrischen VENUSIA Massagen (Lingammassage, Tantramassage und Body-to-Body-Massage) werden die direkten Intimberührungen vor allem in der letzten Phase gegeben. In der Lingam Extended wird dem Intimbereich mehr Aufmerksamkeit geschenkt, bis zu ca. 45 Minuten von den insgesamt 90 Minuten Massagezeit. Dies bedeutet, dass der Intimbereich in der Massagezeit intensiver in die Ganzkörpermassage eingeschlossen wird und es insgesamt zu anderen Wellen der Selbsterfahrung und Empfindungen kommen kann.
Kommunikation in der Massage?
Auch wenn das Genießen jeder VENUSIA Massage ohne verbalen Austausch besonders schön ist, so kann es speziell in der Lingam Extended sinnvoll sein, während der Massage punktuell kurz miteinander zu kommunizieren, eventuell durch vorher vereinbarte Signale. Im Vorgespräch besprechen wir, worauf es dir im Besonderen ankommt. Natürlich kannst du auch einfach alles auf dich zukommen lassen und dich ganz im Vertrauen der Erfahrung hingeben.
Die Lingam Extended Massage wird auf dem Futon (Boden) gegeben.
Reine Massagezeit: 90 Minuten (keine Berechnung für Vorgespräch, Meditation, Nachruhen und Duschen)
Tantra Massages for Women
They are all empathetic, tenderly and absolutely flawlessly interested in giving a woman a beautiful massage experience. You can have complete confidence and let yourself go. All massages are pure one-way giving massage that you may deeply enjoy passively.
If you would like to experience a Tantra massage via VENUSIA, please send a message giving some information about yourself, if you speak German and your contact information.
What is a Body-to-Body-Massage?
If you would like to receive a Body-to-Body-Massage, you must know some details:
- The VENUSIA Oriental Massage centers currently offers the Body-to-Body-Massage for men only.
- An appointment for this massage is only possible on individual agreement and after personal contact through a previous Lingam or Tantra Massage.
- The rules are the same like in all other massages: The Body-to-Body-Massage is a one-way giving massage that you may deeply enjoy passively.
What is the Tao Massage?
The special feature of this massage is its clear structure and slowness. The process was developed by the Tao experts Stephen Russel and Jürgen Kolb and is based on the Taoist system of meridian theory and yin and yang (male and female principles). The Tao massage has been thoroughly thought through in order to alternate phases of excitation, relaxation, stillness, and balance.
The Venusia Oriental Massage Center currently offers the Tao Massage for men only.
What is the "Blind Enjoyment"?
The sense of sight is a very important sensory organ that often dominates the other sense organs. In the “blind enjoyment” which can be applied to any massage, you will automatically perceive all touches and sensations on your other sensory organs (hearing, smell, touch through the skin, taste) much finer and more intense. This supports your inner retreat and can cause new self-experiences.
Specifically, “Blind Enjoyment” means that you find an eye mask outside of my door. You put it on before you knock at the door. I open, take you by your hands and lead you into the massage room. I undress you slowly. You can feel safe and secure. Then you receive your massage “blindly”.
At the end I rub with a towel most of the oil from your body – the rest is good for your skin. If you want to take a shower, I’ll guide you to the bathroom (always with an eye mask – you wear it consistently until you leave my rooms). I’ll bring your clothes to the bathroom. After showering and getting dressed, you put the eye mask back on and knock on the door or send me a whats app. I’ll pick you up and lead you to the front door where we say good-bye.
Experience your massage even more sensual and intense by the total focus on your (non-visual) senses, sensations and feelings.
What is a Wellness Massage?
I give Relax Massages to men and women.
What is the Energetic-Tibetan Back Massage?
This massage form has its origin in Tibetan monasteries. It has been developed by monks in order to restore the balance between body, soul and spirit. From psychosomatics, meanwhile we even know in our Western world that negative emotions and thoughts are sooner or later physically manifested. “Negative” feelings are for example fear, grief, anger, envy, hatred, jealousy, greed, and avarice, meaning all kinds of emotions that cause melancholy and a closed heart. “Negative” thoughts are for example beliefs and perspectives that express separation and resistance to other people, things, or circumstances, whether consciously or unconsciously.
Every pain sustained in the human system is yearning for energy and light to be transformed into love.
It is a great challenge to replace all judgment and criticism more and more with love and acceptance. This counts both for oneself as well as to thoughts about other people and situations.
Against this background, the Energetic-Tibetan Back Massage can help the recipient solve blockages stored in the body. The massage is so deeply relaxing that almost always trance-like consciousness states are noticeable. In this deep inner stillness, healing processes can be supported.
This special back massage consists of a few, very gentle massage touches, which follow a certain sequence and are repeated slowly. An essential module is the lemmniscate (horizontal eight, sign of infinity).
The Energetic-Tibetan Back Massage has a preventive and balancing effect and can also be used as a “burn-out prophylaxis”. On the physical as well as on the mental and spiritual level, this massage causes deep relaxation and well-being.
Although a single treatment is wonderfully beneficial, we recommend a series of 8-10 massages. This gives time to the inner processes and helps to become aware of the transforming effect of the “Tibetan Massage”.
The Energetic-Tibetan back massage is available for men and women on the massage couch.
What is an Energetic Footmassage?
What is a Relaxation Therapy?
Tantra as a path
Relationships, partnerships, living as single
Challenges and crisis as chances for spiritual growth
Desires and hopes
Death, reincarnation, transformation processes
Love as the basis of creation
What is meditation?
I offer meditations for two or in small groups by appointment.
WhatsApp +49 (0)162 8422420.